While most of people are now enjoying in holidays, some people just do not understand meaning of those. By celebrating New Year, we want to leave all bad things behind and hope for better next year. Well, at least most of us. Believe or not, there are still people who seem like have forgotten about holidays. So, do not be surprised, or upset, if u find comment left in your guestbook/album/scenery.
But why they do it?? Let me tell you. They will hate you if you sell clothes 'expensive', no matter what expensive means for them, even if you sell one piece of clothing for high price, expect mean comment. They will hate you if you have clothes he/she wants. They will hate you if you say 'no' to their trade offer, no matter how ridiculous is it. They will hate you if you are 'different', again, no matter what different means to them. They will hate you because you do not reply to chat. They will hate you if you are superstar, if you are popular, if you won covergirl or any other contest. See?
So, what should you do if you come up to a comment full of hate and I am sure jealousy too? Delete it, and forget that it ever existed. It is the best. You can try to argue with them, or reply them nicely to show them how to be nice, but for me, it is just a waste of your precious time.
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Aaa..I love your post!
True.
Some people left me sometime that kind of mean comment.I just delete them.The best way..
Love your post :)
i luv this post.......im going to tear! jk
i really like this post!
I think the reason there is so much drama on Stardoll is because whenever most people say something rude, another person jumps in and decides to start an argument. Like you said, Just delete it or ignore it. Replying will only cause a lot of drama :/
Good post :)
Yeah, nicole24-7, I totally agree with you. :)
Btw. Awesome post!
I agree :) great post x
Wow! Awesome advice! Thankyou very much![:
NO offense, but I couldn't even understand this post. The grammar was really, really bad. I didn't like this post at all because I couldn't get over the bad writing quality.
I love your post I agree!!
It's totally true. But luckily I haven't had any of those comments!
But if I ever had comment like this, I would just laugh and give them an appopriate answer!
i couldn't agree more. i've had a couple of friend requests in the past with hate mail in them and it isn't nice at all. but i just delete them and get on with it. =]
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but kind of true,
thank you so much for this post :)
yah, the holidays are for people just to get along, just tell that to my moms side of the family:)
I think the same way u think, i agree 100%, why waste time with loosers, tht havent anything to do, i even laugh of their nasty comments, they are pathetic, life is to precious, people should apreciate life, to learn tht if they want, they can be happy, its like the real world, they simple judge a person bc is diferent, can be the way someone dress, can be the way tht a person spk, there always be jealous and haters, so i try to ignore them, i have better things in life tht is to waste my time and give the attention, bc these kind of people only wants to people give them attention.
To Catlover103 if u dont understand go to google translate and try to undrestand.
Its very easy to find.
Wht she says is very easy to understand, she says the some people hate others with any motive to hate.
Ilove the post, i always read wht u write bc u think and some people are like chicken they dont have a brain.
Its really important bc u give a good advise, why begin a discuss, nothing justify tht, people should look to life in a positive way, learn how to be happy with wht they have, believe some rich people arent happy even if they have everything, to be happy is to find a path, some people will never find.To be happy is to be in peace to give value to the most simple things, not money, status quo, clothes or material stuff.
There always be rich and poor people, nice and mean, so live life the better way u can and be happy.
The sun when rises is to everyone.
filipinhamaria-
This was not meant to be 'hating' or whatever. And Google Translate doesn't translate bad grammar. That's for the writer to do themselves. When words are left out, everything just gets messy.
Catlover103,
Sweetie, we understand you didn't mean to hate, but if you look carefully and understand the writer, you can see that she may not be a native speaker of English. People contribute to blogs from all over the world, and then they can translate their post in their language to English, but often times, the online translators leave out things that native speakers would normally have since they translate word per word. Or, even then, non-native speakers will try to use as much as they know without using the grammar rules of the language that they are trying to speak/type in because they are not as familiar as those who were born into it.
These are just things to consider when reading, or even speaking to people that might be non-native speakers. :)
and VampLady: AWESOME post!
much love to you all
This isn't a normal post...but I totally agree with it. There's no reason to start a fight with someone you know is below you. It's the mature thing to do.
To Catlover103
I didnt thought tht was a hate comment, i only tryed to help, bc when i dont understand something i use Google translator or buble fish, everyone has the right to have a opinion we live in a democracy, i always say wht i think, i respect others opinions, and i undrestand the message she wrote on the post. Even with bad grammar. I try to translate to my language and use my grammar rules, tht i know and make a text tht has a meaning tht i understand.
I agree, but people don't just hate you if you are superstar. I've been on both sides - superstar and non-superstar, and I have to say sometimes some superstars look down on non-superstars because they feel they are "better," just because they bought something. Seems our generation has ALFfluenza...
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