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Friday, September 17, 2010

BYE LOLITA


Wow! I was utterly shocked today when I saw a comment in my GB that Miss_LolitaF has decided to leave Stardoll. If you don't know who she is...she was the owner of Big Brother Stardoll and The Stardoll Shiner. I'm not sure why Lolita made this sudden decision to leave with so many big projects on the horizon, but maybe she will decide to return.

I just think it's so sad. Looking thru my friends list and the followers list, I have noticed so many names that are no longer on Stardoll anymore. This is part of the reason I have been trying to increase activity. :(

I know that I will prob leave soon too. I have been thinking that this may be my last year , but who knows. It's always hard to let go for long ;)

72 comments:

  1. That's unfortunate. Lolita has always been an active Stardoll member and always has beautiful outfits.

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  2. 2nd :P
    omggg, she can't she was goood! i agree with lattehoney

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  3. wow that's so hard to believe!

    I've also thought about the future of stardoll. I'm mean it's pretty new so a lot of the "original" members are still active. But what will happen in 2, 5 even 10 years from now? stardoll's already changed a lot in the last 4 years, I can't imagine what it will be like in the long run. Yet somehow I can still imagine myself, in collage or maybe even after still going on stardoll every once and a while. I'd like to think that some of my old friends would still be on.

    and think about it, the longer you stay, the more fame you get: and that's what it's all about, isn't it?

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  4. OMG!
    I'm so sad.

    Me and Lolita just started a Friendship, But I will soon talk to her. :(

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  5. liajm


    no for me..it's not about the fame at all. It's just about the fun. The reason for this blog and comps was to be fun. When it stops being fun for m e at all..I will be done.

    I know when I stop this blog, I will just quietly come on my account for awhile to talk to friends and stuff.

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  6. Jenna,

    yes I meant the last part of my last comment sarcastically (: It's difficult to convey that on the internet. I've just always found it strange that the stardoll motto is "fame fashion and friends". No fun? I totally agree that the fun is the best part! And the friends, but they're kind of a package who'd have fun by themselves. that's why I hope people stay on stardoll.

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  7. First of all: I'd like to apologize to Jenna and the staff. School has just started and I neglected this blog and Stardoll. But now I'm sort of settled in and I will try to be active. Hope this blog won't close. :( ( it's a big part of the reason I'm still on SD. )

    Again, sorry. But give it a week or so Jenna a lot people just started school too. :/

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  8. I've been on Stardoll for almost two years now, sometimes I just feel like quitting and living my life. You can't stay on this site forever.

    And I agree with liajm, "fame, fashion and friends" - no fun. Stardoll is all about expressing yourself and being creative, not just about fame.

    We can all agree that one day, we'll all be leaving for good.

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  9. Alot of my best friends have been leaving the site lately, it's really disheartening. I've gotten used to knowing I'll have certain people I can always check in with and have be there to laugh/vent/escape real life with, and them moving on definitely makes me mope a little. The people I've met through this site have definitely been/continue being the biggest reason for me to go on every day.

    It's sad Lolita left, but I'm sure she wouldn't just drop everything without a major reason. She was always so on top of everything and really dedicated, I just hope that everything in her life is going well

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  10. I hope her life goes well and she gets everything she wants.♥
    Still, its sad to see someone leave stardoll, especially if they have many projects on including BBS. Good bye Lolita.

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  11. Whoa..
    That must be a
    big decision for
    her : O

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  12. aww i can't believe dat lolita is leavin'

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  13. I saw on her Skype status that "I am leaving Stardoll and all my blogs and rares will die with me," When I asked her why, she didn't reply, so I figured she might not want to talk about it, or she's simply had enough of Stardoll.

    Personally, and this is coming from my point of view only, I think that she's leaving because of all the stuff people say to her. They sometimes forget that she is a real person with real feelings, and that she's not just a bunch of pixels in real life. She is, again my point of view only, quite nice and kind. She's made mistakes and everybody has. She's not perfect and nobody is. The comments people sometimes throw at her seem really hurtful. It's why I chose her as the Icon for my new project.

    I think she'll be greatly missed. People leave all the time but come back, and this just depends on what the reason for her leaving

    Believe it or not, I can see myself on Stardoll in five years time. Maybe not as active, but still here. I've personally never wanted to be famous on Stardoll.

    Jenna, here's hoping you don't leave soon :) Stardoll's Most Wanted wouldn't be the same without you running it.

    Liajm, I think 'Fame' means dressing up celebs and RC accounts.

    Bye, Lolita. X

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  14. Oh... that's pity.
    will she delete her account?

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  15. I've been trying to leave so many times, and I've actually been pretty much away this whole summer! Jenna, don't leave! You're the queen of stardoll pretty much!

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  16. i think that is okay when she 'takes' her rares with her ... but she can do a good thing .. She has a good memory...

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  17. OMG No! I Loved Her Outfits And Especially Her Blogs... She Will Be Missed :(
    ~ Alice

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  18. one thing:
    so freakin what?
    everyone is leaving, one more or less doesnt make a big change
    except she could have left her blog running by others, but no, everything must die with her.. thats kinda selfish

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  19. LOL! tottaly crazy think. Lollita was a wonderful member with lots of WONDERFUL outfits and se decided to leave stardoll? a really truly big silly thing. But to you Jenna, if a member decides to leave stardoll you don't have do to the same because without you this blog will be nothing else a non- activ blog. BELIEVE ME! o you dont have to leave stardoll. peace. X

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  20. NONONONOO
    JENNA YOU CAN'T LEAVE.
    Forget about lolita now, but jenna, SERIOUS? :o

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  21. Loilta Left :O
    Oh my :'[

    Jenna please dont leave,Think of all the followers on this blog and all your good friends on Stardoll. If you leave,The stardoll world might be torn apart.

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  22. No, I can't believe it :(
    She was so likeable :(
    However it's very hard leave Stardoll, I left it on December for 4 months but then I've thought to all my things made on the site and I've decided to come back on Stardoll ^^ It's a part of my life, I have made a lot of friends there and I can't leave it even if I'll remain a non-ss and I can't buy anything xD

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  23. I saw it.. bwah I'm really sad D":

    JENNA!!! DONT GO!
    The Stardoll world is not complete without you!!

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  24. I think she is leaving because clearly & truthfully she was being bullied by a lot of people, from the way some of them talk/write/complain about her. She may be a bit over the top but I think it could be jealousy as she has been on stardoll for only a year & she can afford a lot of items & is known by a lot of people. The comments people make about her are too harsh. She's deleted her blog as well.

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  25. I mean some sad people made a blog(which makes no sense) about her! That's scary enough to leave. Stardoll is about fun not making horrible comments about people. If someone annoys you just ignore them.

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  26. Blogger Name: Bruno/kxcatarinaxk
    Stardoll Name: kxcatarinaxk
    Blog:Big brother stardoll
    I followed.

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  27. I love Lolita, she was such an awesome friend, well she still is because she's not dead :D
    I'm going to miss her, and our convos :P
    And to Milena, it wasn't selfish at all. And she has her reasons.

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  28. I'm going to miss her so much.. she was one of my closest friends. But I understand her instinct. I tried leaving stardoll a few months ago. I thought it would be best just to suddenly and make it easier for myself. But I couldn't. I came back again the next week because I missed actually reading all the stardoll blogs so much (more than missing stardoll itself).

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  29. I have nothing bad to say about Lolita but I think she left to escape from giving her project's prizes. As in Lipstick Magazine she said that the 500th follower would receive a SS code, then when it was like with 480 followers she deleted it..

    Now she leaves her Big Brother Stardoll's contestants behind without a prize for their work.. it's not fair at all.

    Btw I think she will be back.

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  30. Oh please! Does anyone REALLY think she'll Leave? She just wants attention.... AS ALWAYS!

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  31. I don't know why people leave Stardoll. It's like a work, an obligation, which is weird. That's why I created Rehab Center - it was with that point.

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  32. She will be missed.
    I was one of the first ones to get know about this, I truly hope she will come back, TSS and BBS won't be the same without her, whole stardoll fame world won't be the same...

    Though now many of my friends leave, I don't know for how long I will stay, without friends stardoll is worthless waste of time - you can be extremely creative, but if you don't have 'fame' - many visitors who will say that they like your outfit and personality or the trust-able friends with who you can talk about everything and have safe selling deals - without it all stardoll is just empty place.

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  33. We will all leave once,I respect her decision ;/

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  34. umm, unfortunately idk her, i remember she doing something in blog, interviewing? right?

    anyways

    I feel little envy, i think about leaving for mmmm 5?6? months and I still can't made this step.
    But one thing i can say for sure, everybody will leave stardoll sooner or later.

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  35. )': Bye bye Lolita! We have to leave at some point right?

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  36. Bye, Lolita.

    I Understand Why She Decided To Leave, Afterall She Has A Real Life To Live Now! It`s Not All Fun & Games On Stardoll & Real Life.
    But Stardoll To Me Is Getting Boring, So I Might Just Be One Of The Others Who Bite The Dust & Decide To Leave.

    Rab92.

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  37. I can't say I'm too depressed, because I never really talked to her before or anything :/

    But it's always sad to see a member leave. Lately, I seem to be kinda bored with Stardoll. I have considered quitting. :(

    Sorry for not commenting too much lately. See excuse above!

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  38. i heard of her but dont know her. i think we all think sometimes about leaving...but i'm sure everyone on this blog hopes you will stay longer. It's really good.

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  39. Jenna did not decide to not take such that :)and if that's really true! I'm sure we all miss you

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  40. I'm not into Stardoll as much.I joined early '07 and I grew out of it I guess. I'll never get rid of my account, but I'm not as active as before.

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  41. Jenna please DON'T leave! You're a a role model for all of your readers, PLUS you're a legend on stardoll and also is your blog!

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  42. This may be why;
    thereal-lolita.blogspot.com/

    Made by i_luvsports.

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  43. =OOOO SERIOUSLY!? Lolita!?!?!? I can't believe it!!!!! D=

    And noo, don't go! D= Then who will take over this wicked-awesome blog!? O.O

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  44. wow! can't believe it! Good luck girl! we'll miss you!

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  45. I hate when something like that happening in stardoll or in true life .. but we must be realistic ..this is the life .. everybody will leaving Stardoll in someday .. me too! ... I just would like to say that I will miss her .. she was so nice and helpful girl ..and I understood why she when to leave .. many people tried to hurt her ..some of these people crossed the border of her personal life ..really so bad .. anyway I wish to her all the best and I hope that everything in her life is going well

    Jenna please don't leave .. because you are the beautiful soul of this blog .. really the blog was so boring..when you was in vacation!!

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  46. Aw.. It's so sad she left :( But no one can be on stardoll forever !

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  47. NOOOOO Dont Goo.. You Were Great!!
    We will Miss You!

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  48. I'm shocked, that's so sad, she was really great with her original outfits, make-ups, graphics! I can't believe that!

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  49. wow. Is all i can say.

    She was at the height of her game! and she left! :|
    But I guess that their are loads of reasons as to why she may have left. All the stuff the blogs give her and everything... :(
    I guess we all have to leave at some point.

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  50. That's so sad!
    The beautiful, creative girl! ♥

    Jenna you should NEVER leave i love this blog, you look, outfits, suite, album and everything too much!


    Have a great day, ♥ 0771

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  51. That's so sad!
    The beautiful, creative girl! ♥

    Jenna you should NEVER leave i love this blog, you look, outfits, suite, album and everything too much!


    Have a great day, ♥ 0771

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  52. yeah,we will all leave,too.That's just the way it should be.

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  53. Recently a lot of old members are living Stardoll :( Thats so sad!

    Jenna don´t leave Stardoll :(

    We will miss you Lotita!

    xxx

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  54. Lolita has been such a great friend to me and got me involved in a lot of ehr projects which i will always be greatfull for i really hope she returns :)

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  55. SHES NOT LEAVING ! :)
    [14:21:05] Dimitrina.: Lolly?
    [14:21:15] Lolita E.: yes
    [14:21:25] Dimitrina.: Why do you leave ?
    [14:21:34] Lolita E.: i will not

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  56. Im very sad because of it! She is essencial to stardoll, i feel.

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  57. @Dimitrina Beckham.♥ /Anilavi: I think that Lolita E. is fake..

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  58. Yesits a sad fact. I've been really active on Stardoll since i joined in 2007, but I'll start to gradually be less active and by the year after, i'll prob leave Stardoll. This is because of exams and i assume this is why most ppl are leaving Stardoll. It is hard to go on online with exams on but hopefully. every once in a while, i can log on to a website that i truly love to imerse myself in

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  59. Blogger Name: CrazyStick
    Stardoll Name: CrazyStick
    Blog: stardoll-i-my.blogspot.com
    I followed.

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  60. @Benteliv: Lolita E. isn't a stardoll username, it's Lolita's Skype Username..

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  61. Wow, a lot of people leave stardoll nowadays, and that makes me think about my future on stardoll. I always say that I'll never leave stardoll, because I enjoy it so much, but lately I'm really busy and I'm not that active - school started, I'm in my final year, I'll start University next year...and then, who knows? I won't leave completely but I'll probably be less active...

    lady__gagaa

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  62. Bye..But ur post always amazing, great job..

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